My boyfriend is sweet and romantic but he watches porn when I'm not with him. Is this just entertainment or could this mean he'd prefer one of those girls on the screen Am I just sex to him?
II Column II: Well I am a guy, and obviously you do not have sex with him. I am just saying that really every guy is like a sex predator, not to make guys look bad, but it is just that every guy masturbates, so it is perfectly normal. I am pretty sure he loves/likes you (how ever your relationship is) as much as you love/like him back. All guys know (if they have experience with girlfirends) is that the guy is supposed to listen to how the girl is feeling with the relationship or her life or just anything. If it is not akward to say this, tell him that you are uncomfortable with him watching porn when you are his girlfriend. He should understand, if not then he does not want to best suit to your conditions and that he will not change for you.I am sorry if this does not help (:--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------I'll tell you something. The answer on top is great, but you can also get an answer from a girl's perspective. I'm a girl but I do not have a boyfriend. My friend's sister has TWELVE boyfriends, and, like my friend's sister, if you don't feel comfortable with him, just tell him! Just like what it says on the guy's perspective. But if he doesn't understand your feelings, then probably he's not the right guy for you. If you keep telling him how uncomfortable you are, and he still doesn't understand you, then he's CLEARLY NOT the right guy for you. This suggestion might break your feelings, but it'd probably be the best solution. Break up with him and find another guy that is just as sweet & romantic, but more understanding than him. But don't find someone you don't trust to be with you.I am sorry if this doesn't help either :)
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